Get your ex back? this is funny

[Sure I Am]

Never take a good, comfortable relationship for granted. Value it while you have it. Wise advise, most often not followed and regretted later.Why did you break up?

Did you feel that your freedom was being curtailed and you wanted to flirt around and play the field?
It is said that the picture looks rosy from afar, yet you were taken in by all the gloss of the others that you wanted to interact with?

Now after playing the field you want to win your ex back. Why? Isn't it the same stability and security of this one person that you shunned which you now desire. The reason is that you have learnt your lesson, and matured now.

Why do you want to win your ex back? You need to answer this truthfully to yourself, only then can you get down to working on achieving this goal. It may be difficult, but with Sincerity, Honesty and Perseverance, it is not out of reach.

Once that you have made up your mind to win your ex back, call him up and fix a date, take him for dinner. Take care with your appearance, dress up well, wear the perfume he used to like on you; make an all round effort to help him remember you as the one he fell in love with. You should speak of pleasant times shared and apologize for whatever you did wrong. Keep your tone firm but friendly..... hear what he has to say in response very carefully, as that will guide you to what is in his heart. Blame circumstances, stress or mood swings, bad health or anything else but not him, for the break up. Keep the thought uppermost in your mind that you want to win your ex back.

Eat humble pie if you have to, but do ask for another chance to have a go at the relationship again. Tell him that you miss all the times you shared, all the things you did together, just build his self esteem as a dependable, strong guy whom you miss and love dearly. Keep crying and mushiness out of it. Tell him that you have learnt from your past mistakes and don't want to live without him.

Hear him out and take all he says about your behavior with calmness and with patience. Let him say it all and get it out of his system. He needs to let go of these things hidden in his heart. Understand his hurt and put salve on it by listening patiently and quietly. You must not start a fight or retaliate, even if you feel that his views are not fair. Let it be. Let bygones be bygones.. don't take it to heart and remember that you need him. Let your love guide you through it all.

Why is getting your ex back so important to you?

Because a good relationship is one of the most treasured of human interactions. We all want to be loved. There are the great times together, the shared dreams and visions, the mutual likes and dislikes and more. Great relationships are essential for enjoying a good quality of life. They color everything else around us.

Losing a lover is one of the most emotionally traumatizing episodes in our life. It is amazing how the very thing that brings us the most pleasure also brings with it the most grief.

But your situation is not hopeless. Actually, it is far from it. It is quite possible to win your ex back regardless of whether they eloped with someone else or not. I have successfully done it myself and you can do it too. Of course, you have to know how to do it effectively.

If you want to learn the most effective approach to successful reuniting with your ex, please visit LINK REMOVED. It has worked for me and it will work for you. If you think that your relationship is worth of saving... you should fight for it. You can reverse the breakup and get your ex back... just like I have.

[Sure I Am]

You can take this off jf if you dont want it here but i laughed at it.

Who else thinks this is a load of *****?

[J F]

That`s fine with me Sure.

Spammers are a pest to be honest, and we usually don`t have any trouble with them, but one always gets through somehow. All I did on the other forum was remove the links off the posts. I don`t mind links but when it`s obvious they are only used to advetise then they will be removed.

It`s all over the top isn`t it really? People split up for a reason and most cases if you do go back, it never works out. There are some who do get lucky, and good on them for making the effort, but most of the time it`s just not worth it.

[Shauna]

Oh dear. Isn`t it amazing what people will fall for and all due to it being on a website that is made to look good? There really are no simply answers on how to resolve issues with an ex. I tend to think along the lines of it happened for a reason as JF has already said in her post.

[Sure I Am]

I thought it were funny

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